Category Archives: Faith
As usual, many happenings within the Miller family. Monte’s burial service and celebration of life service were both beautiful. There were over 500 people at his service on Friday evening. His church and family made sure he had a wonderful tribute. Also last week, my daughter-in-law Lisa, lost her very beloved grandmother. To say Lisa was close to her grandma would be an understatement. So it is a sad time for her, but a little bit a good news for her, Kane and the boys. In fact it is great news.
Brantley and his new brother Matthias are getting a new home! This is really an answer to my prayers. Brantley is a very active boy. Curious, creative, and too much energy to be contained in a small apartment without a yard. But renting a house and moving is a very expensive undertaking.
Well LL’s cousin owns a house in the country about a mile from Kane’s Uncle Monte’s house and the St. Louis church and grange. Any one that knows this area, knows it is beautiful and quiet and perfect to raise a family. This used to be LL’s Uncle Clayton’s farm. Linda, LL’s cousin has leased the farm land to a local farmer and rented the house along with 1 1/2 acres to a couple who recently moved out. She offered it to Kane and Lisa. She is making it very easy to afford and they can basically do what ever they want to the house and to the acre and a half. Boy, I have had answers to prayers in the past, but this is one of the most spectacular. First things on the list is for LL and Kane to put up a fence in the back yard. Beyond that, they can do house improvements, put in a garden, get chickens, etc. while living there and take their time. I am beyond happy for them. Especially those two little guys. I can see them playing out side for many years to come. Thank you God!
The house is on a long gravel road with little traffic. Kane has the use of the shop, riding lawn mower, and tractor.
I belong to a very large family. Actually, more than one. If you take in account my very large Purdy family, (Mom’s side). Very large Staab family, (Dad’s side) and the LL’s family. He does not have a huge extended multi-generational family like I do, but he has 4 brothers, all with spouses and many kids, their spouses, and children.
Often lately, I have been thinking about how rough this last year was and how rough this year is turning out to be. reminiscent of the 12 months a decade ago that I lost my dad, my mother-in-law, our house fire, losing our home and all our possessions, then Max’s additional life altering diagnosis. That was a bad year.
Well last year, I had the blessing of two of my children’s weddings, but along with that, I lost 2 Aunts, 2 Uncles, my brother-in-law David, and my nephew Michael. Pretty crappy year. 😦
So far this year, my mom was very sick, my sister Kathy is very ill, and my brother-in-law Monte,…..well things are very rough. Kris picked me up this morning, I can’t get out of my driveway yet, so I slipped and slid walking down my driveway and met her down the road at a store parking lot. We went for a meeting to address many issues for my sister Kathy. Kris and I are her guardians. The meeting went well, as many of us are putting plans in place for the next few months. On the drive home, I had a mini-breakdown. Cried and voiced my anger of the unfair situations hitting my loved ones. Felt good, that cry. I try never to cry in front of Max….very upsetting to him. So I got it out of my system. But it got me thinking.
Statistics wise, it make sense that with the amount of family I have, there will be bad years. Not only does it hit my immediate family, but I have an uncle and cousin struggling too. Is it worth it? All this worrying and pain, is it worth it because I have a big family?????
It is. When we called hospice at the end of my dad’s life, my siblings and I never left his side for weeks. Always at least one, usually two holding vigil, making sure of his comfort. The pain of losing him was somehow more tolerable knowing you had five other siblings who were in just as much pain and were there to support you. When I went through my cancer. Many, many surgeries, chemo and radiation, lots of pain, I was rarely left alone. My husbands brothers and wives were my prayer warriors, my siblings and mom assisted my kids and LL, taking me to appointments and taking care of me on my sickest days. Small families don’t have that same support.
So I think the sorrow may come more often with a very large family, but the love just completely overwhelms all the pain. The burden is somehow lifted.
I hope that things turn around for my sis and Monte. I pray that they do, but I know no matter the outcome, there is a lot of love spread around me and again, we will all get through it. God bless
Today, day 12, I am so thankful for onions and garlic. My love for them has no bounds.
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